Effective Leadership Requires “eq” Not Iq

Sach Oliver
Attorney
(866) 735-1102 Ext 436
Visit Sach Oliver on Avvo
Posted by Sach OliverMarch 20, 2009 12:27 PM
Tags: None

EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP REQUIRES “EQ” NOT IQ

Most everyone knows what an IQ is, but many do not have any idea what an “EQ” is, even though it is nearly impossible to be an effective leader without it. EQ first caught my attention is a great book, Emotional Intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ, by Daniel Goleman. Then I read an article by Jamie S. at Northwest Arkansas News and I thought about this blog.

“EQ” is emotional intelligence, or having the ability to manage one’s emotions and to understand and respond to the emotional needs of others. William Chew, CFO of Bama Food, Inc. and an expert on emotional intelligence spoke about this issue recently at a local college.

Chew told the crowd that a common reason for leaders to fail is their lack of emotional strength. Chew stated that “IQ gets you to the party, but it doesn’t keep you there,” he said. “IQ gets you to the interview, but EQ gets you the job.”

Chew outlined the five components essential to having “EQ”:

  • Self-awareness: Understanding your own moods and emotions, as well as their effect on others;
  • Self-regulation: Being able to control and redirect your own disruptive impulses and moods, as well as being able to think before acting;
  • Motivation: The propensity to pursue goals with energy and persistence and having a passion for work that goes beyond gaining money and status;
  • Empathy: The ability to understand the emotional makeup of others, as well as having the skills to treat people according to their emotional reactions; and
  • Social Skills: A proficiency in managing relationships and building networks, as well as the ability to find common ground with people and build support.

Chew also said that having a strong emotional intelligence is not only important in business, but in one’s personal life.

This post written by: Leona Crowe, Legal Assistant to Sach Oliver

3 Comments

Have an opinion about this post? Please consider leaving a comment or subscribing to the feed to have future articles delivered to your feed reader.

Shari Frisinger
Posted by Shari Frisinger
March 22, 2009 1:38 PM

In my seminars, I have found that once people are aware of the feelings they are experiencing, and they are able to 'name' them [anger, hurt, disappointed, embarrassment, worthlessness, criticized, happy, excited, etc],this gives validity to the emotions and people are ready to move forward.

Sach Oliver
Posted by Sach Oliver
March 24, 2009 4:39 PM

Shari,

Thank you for your comment. Can you tell me about your seminars? Where? Topic? etc?

Thanks,

Sach

Shari
Posted by Shari
March 24, 2009 5:01 PM

My topic is on Communications … Specifically inter- and intra-personal communications and pre-conflict resolution. When under stress, we react, not respond. We don’t know why we hijack, yet we do. And unknowingly we feed our hijackings, and let others feed our hijackings.
I work with people to stop the hijacking and give them skills to understand their behaviors and the underlying reasons why. Giving people the knowledge and skills to realize and verbalize [even if only to themselves] is a huge step. For instance, I deal with a lot of strong male egos, the 'Captainitis' mentality. When one of these people hijack, it is because they believe their authority is being attacked. Getting them to name their emotion and understand why it happens, that seems to alleviate the stress and all parties are better able to resolve the situation. Not an easy thing to do ... my Masters' research was on communication styles and behaviors.
I offer seminars at my clients' location - either their office or off-site. The seminars are highly interactive, engaging and delving deep into the total awareness and insights of situations.
I recently had two articles published in Law Office Administrator's Magazine. I can forward them to you if you'd like.

Comments for this article are closed.

Subscribe to InjuryBoard Bentonville

InjuryBoard Bentonville  RSS Feeds

Keep up with the latest updates using your favorite RSS reader

Injury Board Bentonville is brought to you by Bailey & Oliver Law Firm

Legal Assistance Center

More Info
Bailey & Oliver Law Firm (866) 735-1102 Ext 435 www.imaginejustice.com
google
Personal Injury Lawyers Serving: Bentonville, Fayetteville, Mountain Home, Little Rock, Fort Smith, El Dorado, Bald Knob, Beebe, Benton, Bryant, Cabot, Conway, Dumas, Heber Springs, Hot Springs, Jacksonville, Pine Bluff, Sherwood, all areas of Arkansas.
2000 SE 14th Street, Bentonville, Arkansas 72712 [ Show Map ]506 Hospital Drive, Mountain Home, Arkansas 72653 [ Show Map ]
Better Business Bureau Accredited Business Confidential

Your question will be referred to an attorney near you. If your question is of a legal nature, then by submitting this form you agree you are not forming a formal attorney / client relationship. Read our full privacy policy.

Looking for an InjuryBoard attorney closer to home? Click here.

Subscribe to Blog Updates

Enter your email address if you would like to receive email notifications when comments are made on this post.

Email address